Wendy Diaz on Islam, Identity, and Inclusion
Wendy Diaz on Islam, Identity, and Inclusion
In this episode of the American Muslim Podcast, host Imam Tariq El-Amin speaks with Sister Wendy Diaz, a multifaceted writer, educator, and award-winning poet. Highlighting her journey from Puerto Rico to the United States, Sister Wendy shares impactful moments from her childhood that set her on a path of education and empowerment. They delve into the cultural intersections of language and religion, the growing influence of Latino Muslims in the U.S., and the challenges of xenophobia within the Muslim community. Sister Wendy also emphasizes the importance of children's literature and educational resources in Spanish, providing insights into her ongoing work to support and uplift Latino Muslim voices. This episode underscores the significance of inclusivity, representation, and continuous learning in fostering stronger communities.
00:00 Introduction to Bayan on Demand
01:01 Meet Our Guest: Sister Wendy Diaz
01:59 Wendy's Formative Years and Early Influences
06:34 The Impact of Language and Education
12:47 Cultural Identity and Racism Experiences
21:46 Challenges and Misconceptions in the Muslim Community
26:34 The Role of Writing and Poetry
31:11 Spanish Language Outreach and DAWA Work
34:01 Challenges in Nonprofit Work
36:30 Latino Muslims' Contributions and Growth
47:51 Parenting Insights and Reflections
54:05 The Importance of Islamic Literature
56:45 Leadership and Legacy
01:02:27 Final Thoughts and Ongoing Projects
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God can give be upon you.
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:I'm your host, Imam Tariq El-Amin, and
welcome to the American Muslim Podcast
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:presented by Bayan on Demand Today.
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:Our guest is Sister Wendy Diaz.
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:She's a writer, educator, and
award-winning poet whose work empowers
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:Latino Muslim families through
language, education and faith.
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:She's the co-founder of Hablamos
Islam and a leading voice in
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:Spanish language Islamic outreach.
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:Welcome to the American
Muslim Podcast, my sister,
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:Wendy Diaz: for having me.
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:It's a pleasure to be here.
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:Imam Tariq: I always put this out
before we get into conversation.
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:We invite our guests to be
as open, as transparent, as
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:vulnerable, as they are comfortable
being in sharing their stories.
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:there's obviously great work or great
value in the work that you do, and we
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:say that there's just as much, if not
even greater value in the journey that
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:brought you to the work that you do.
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:So that being said, can you take us
back to a formative moment, something
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:that was, that you could look at that
was impactful, that kind of set you
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:on the course that you're on today?
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:Wendy Diaz: Absolutely.
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:First and foremost
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:was of age nine.
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:I'm feeling blessed to be here.
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:This is my 25th year as a Muslim.
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:Mm.
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:Something impactful.
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:I was just at the icna Convention
this past weekend and I had a
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:session, called Authors Corner where
we were talking about, becoming
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:authors and what gotten, what has
gotten us into our writing journey.
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:And one of my reflection was, was about
how I came to the US from Puerto Rico.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:A lot of people don't know that
my family is a military family.
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:So my father was in the Army
and we ended up moving to the
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:mainland, US from Puerto Rico.
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:And I didn't know any English at the time.
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:I was in, I was going into third grade, so
I was about maybe eight or nine years old.
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:And, my first experience going
into a school, they, they threw
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:me into a regular classroom.
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:There wasn't any ESL and this was on a
military base, this elementary school.
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:And it just so happens to be that,
at my teacher was Mexican American.
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:And she was able to take me by
the hand and kind of show me step
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:by step how to, speak in English.
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:And one of the things I was telling the
audience is that my first experience
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:trying to read English because the, the
teacher, she wanted me to sit in, in the
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:regular reading circles with my classmates
and take on these, these reading lessons,
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:even though I didn't know any English.
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:So she would tell me to read, from a
textbook and I had no idea what I was
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:doing because I didn't know the language.
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:But she would just tell me read.
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:And I, that first experience, I
told her I don't know how to read.
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:And I was thinking, you know, this
whole scenario is very similar to.
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:The, what we know of the first revelation
to the prophet Moham where he was
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:told to read and he said, I can't.
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:Right.
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:I can't, I'm not a reader.
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:I'm not a recit.
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:And, and this is the same response
that I had for my teacher at the time.
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:I don't know how to read,
but she told me, just do it.
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:And and I'll correct you.
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:So every single letter that I
would read in English, I was
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:pronouncing it in Spanish.
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:And then little by little, she
would correct every single one
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:with so much patience until
I was able to read fluently.
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:And this took only a matter of few weeks.
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:And that's how with, with
children, they learn so quickly.
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:And after I, I learned how to read,
she took me to the school library
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:and she showed me a little shelf of,
of books and she said, I want you
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:to read all the books on this shelf.
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:And the impact of that, I mean,
it's still with me to this
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:day because that was what I.
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:What began for me this journey of reading
and what eventually became writing
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:because I loved reading so much, because
of this gesture, that this teacher did.
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:And so for me, I think Ed educators
have such an impact on children, and
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:it, it set me on this course I think
that I am today because once I started
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:reading and, and seeing, I started
off with, all kinds of, of books.
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:Started off, with small chapter books,
you know, early chapter books, and then
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:moved on and then I, I started getting
interested in all kinds of topics.
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:Even as a young child, I started
reading Greek mythology and Roman
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:mythology and just absorbing all of
this knowledge that I didn't have
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:access to when I was in Puerto Rico.
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:And then eventually, after a few years,
it's may have seemed like a long time for
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:me at the time, but I mean, fast forward
to maybe six years later at the age of 15.
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:I go into a book exchange
in Savannah, Georgia.
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:By that time I was in another state,
and there was a book there that, that
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:was calling my name on the table.
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:It was the Autobiography of Malcolm X.
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:Hmm.
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:And and going from this military family,
my, my father was deployed to the Persian
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:Gulf War, what they called Desert Storm.
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:That was in the early nineties.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:And then, and then to be in that
environment and then to now be introduced
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:to Islam through reading, after being
taught to read by, by this Mexican
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:American teacher on a military army
base, it, it, it's just surreal how, how
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:that changed the trajectory of my life.
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:Imam Tariq: Mm.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:So you said it's been 25 years for you.
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:Did language play, or what role
did language play in the way you.
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:Perceived or engaged with,
with religion that has brought
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:you to where you are today?
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:Wendy Diaz: A great question.
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:I, I start, I started off, as a Catholic.
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:My family was a Catholic family,
so I was raised in this very
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:traditional Catholic home.
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:Went to Catholic school in Puerto
Rico, went to Sunday school, did
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:the communion and confession
and all of the, those sacraments
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:until up until I was a teenager.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:But then I eventually pulled away
from, from, the Catholic church
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:after we moved around quite a bit in
the us and we didn't really find a
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:community that we could resonate with.
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:And language definitely played
a big role, and I think that I
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:had at least a solid foundation.
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:And of course, you know, we, we know
that the creator has, has, I created all
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:these languages and, and cultures that
we can, get to know and, and learn about.
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:And, and I think that coming from
the Spanish language and this very
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:Catholic background opened up, I think
new doors for me to really explore.
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:Okay, now that I'm here in the us now
that I'm speaking English, now, I, I have
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:an, an another world that's opened up to
me, that perhaps I wouldn't have been,
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:introduced to while I was in Puerto Rico.
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:And so I think that definitely be becoming
bilingual, opened up that other door.
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:And then of course now with the Arabic
language, you, you have, you know,
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:even more doors opening as a Muslim.
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:Because of course once you become a
Muslim, then you start to, to learn the
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:Arabic language and then you start to see
some connections, especially with Spanish.
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:Yes.
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:A lot of people don't know how much
an influence the Arabic language
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:has on the Spanish language.
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:So many words.
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:And it was amazing to me when I started to
practice Islam and, hang out with Muslim
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:friends, especially those that came from
Arab country, miss Egyptians especially.
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:The family that introduced me to
Islam was Egyptian, and I would hear
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:them speak and there was a certain
familiarity that I couldn't really
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:understand that the time I was like, why
does this language sound so familiar?
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:Imam Tariq: Mm-hmm.
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:And
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:Wendy Diaz: it is like
it spoke to my heart.
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:And then the more I learned about the
background, the linguistic background
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:of Spanish and what the influences
were and the Muslim's presence
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:in, in Spain, in southern Spain,
andous, and also in West Africa.
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:And all of, and Puerto Rico being
one of the first places that
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:was colonized by Spain, right?
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:So this introduction of, of all
of these Islamic influences in the
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:language has really had an impact on
me, and I'm still discovering gems.
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:That are just amazing, in the
language, just in the language itself.
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:Imam Tariq: Yeah.
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:There is this definite
beautiful diversity.
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:It's not always recognized in, in
my opinion, When you talk about the
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:difference of language and how language
is attached to culture and and how
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:we get this wonderful opportunity as
Muslims to bring those things together,
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:what are some of the things that
you find yourself seeing as distinct
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:points of your own cultural, offering
into into diverse Muslim spaces?
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:Wendy Diaz: I think but coming back to
that language, it's not, and it's not just
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:the vocabulary and the language structure,
the grammar and things that, that are
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:impactful, but also some of the sayings.
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:And some of the traditions
that have been passed down.
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:And I think that's where people
like me can come into the Muslim
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:community and and, and, and be a
bridge between cultures, right?
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:Because we don't see as many Latinos
in the, in the Muslim community,
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:even though it's a growing it's
a growing demographic for sure.
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:Imam Tariq: Mm-hmm.
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:But
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:Wendy Diaz: I think we kind of camouflage
ourselves and we, we kind of just
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:integrate into the communities, but we
still need more education in Islamic
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:spaces on, on what it means to be a
Latino and what, how much of an influence
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:Islam really has on our culture.
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:And like, I'll give you an example.
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:One of the things I, I learned
just maybe a year ago I was
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:watching a, a video about Aldo.
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:And Aldo is the Spanish language used
to be written with Arabic characters
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:by some of the, the Muslims in Spain.
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:Especially after during the, the time
of the Inquisition and things like that,
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:they were, trying to hide messages in
the Arabic script, so they would be
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:actually, writing Spanish in Arabic.
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:And so Ello is this, is this whole, it's
almost like another language really.
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:I mean, it's Spanish, but
written with Arabic text.
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:And so there was a professor
who's from Puerto Rico, who is not
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:Muslim, but she specializes Indo.
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:And she was explaining to it on explaining
about it in this Puerto Rican talk show.
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:And she said a phrase that just
clicked with me automatically.
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:She said that the way that we read Aldo is
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:s literally means the opposite
way of the Christians.
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:And that is a, it's a very common
phrase to use in Puerto Rico when you're
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:talking about something that's backwards.
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:Like if you just put on your shirt
backwards, someone's gonna tell you, oh,
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:you put your shirt on in a backwards way.
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:And and then it clicked.
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:I said, the reason why we say that
is because what's anos would mean
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:Arabic is, is red from right to
left rather than from left to right.
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:And so that's where that came from.
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:And I've been hearing that
phrase my whole life and I never
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:understood, okay, why do we say that?
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:And so it was just amazing to me.
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:And automatically, I mean, I immediately,
I made a video about it and I posted it
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:on my social media because it's like,
wow, I want everyone to know this.
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:Because no one would, would ever
even think, stop to think about it.
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:Right.
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:We have idioms and things that we
say every day, but we don't stop
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:and think, where did this come from?
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:Right,
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:right.
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:So that's it.
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:Imam Tariq: That's it's incredible.
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:Yeah.
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:That, that's fascinating.
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:Alro.
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:That's what it's called.
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:El Alro.
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:Yes.
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:Okay.
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:Ro.
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:Alright.
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:Alright.
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:Ham.
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:You know, I had the my family, we
visited, Puerto Rico, some years ago.
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:And my, my daughters were still young.
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:And one of the things that I noticed
was from a, how we are very much
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:conditioned in the west to see ourselves
along phenotypical lines, right?
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:If you are dark, you're black.
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:If you're light, you're, you know,
you, you're considered white, right?
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:And from the African American
experience, we are in all colors.
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:And when I went to Puerto Rico.
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:I saw families that looked like
very much like my own family.
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:'cause I have, my mother is, very light,
maybe about, about your complexion.
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:And my father's, a little bit
lighter than me, you know, so
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:he is kind of a darker brown.
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:And I saw families that you just
saw this kind of a, rainbow, right?
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:You know, this wonderful representation.
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:And I bring that up because when
you talk about being a bridge,
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:how you all, how you feel, as a
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:Latino,
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:, Imam Tariq: Muslim, but do you see
this kind of a sensitivity or maybe an
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:awareness that supersedes some of the,
the boundaries, these enforced kind
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:of lines that we have on us in society
here that you feel kind of aware of?
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:Or what do you, what are
your thoughts about that?
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:Wendy Diaz: Alah?
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:you know, I've said this before, but
I really have to stop and think about
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:it, but I, I've told, before that I
didn't experience racism until I moved
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:to the us, but I'll tell you, I did
notice that there was colorism, but not
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:in the way that it's, that it is here.
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:And, and I, and it's, and I'll tell
you how, over there in Puerto Rico,
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:you do have some, internalized.
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:Racism, internalized colonialism, right?
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:Imam Tariq: Mm-hmm.
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:Wendy Diaz: That, that mindset,
because over there, there was a caste
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:system during colonial times, right?
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:You, the European, the European
born Spanish people were on the
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:top of the hierarchy, right?
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:But then you had Europe, you had Spanish
people that were born in Puerto Rico,
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:and so they were of a lower status.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:And then you had the Spanish people
that, that mixed with indigenous, and
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:then they were a little bit lower.
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:And so there, there was this system,
and of course, at the bottom you
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:had the enslaved Africans, darker
complexions, or the ones that, that
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:were mixed with indigenous and so on.
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:Yes.
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:That.
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:So we have remnants of that.
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:And so you, you'll have phrases
like, you know, we say some, some
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:of my, my family would say something
like, even though those that are
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:darker in complexion, they'll talk
about Malo and El Malo is bad hair.
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:Imam Tariq: Bad hair,
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:Wendy Diaz: and meaning
coarse or coily hair.
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:Versus el,
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:which is the, the straight hair.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:So you, you do have things like that
that you, you hear about growing
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:up, but then here in the US it's
a different type of, of racism.
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:it's a, it's, and it, it goes
against any type of of color
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:whatsoever over there in Puerto Rico.
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:Everybody's Puerto Rican,
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:Imam Tariq: right?
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:Wendy Diaz: And we have, we have
poets and singers and artists that
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:have, brought to light the fact
that all of us are Puerto Rican,
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:all of us are from the same culture.
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:And there's this famous and I,
i'm gonna forget the name right
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:there, right now at the moment.
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:But there's a, a poet who, who
talked about this in this famous
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:poem where he says it, it's called,
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:and it's called, it Means,
and Where's Your Grandma at?
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:And the whole, the, the whole point
of his poem, he talks about you
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:hide away your grandmother in the
kitchen so that people don't see
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:because you, you present as white.
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:But you know, let me ask you
like, where's your grandma at?
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:Imam Tariq: Wow.
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:Wendy Diaz: Because we, because his
grandmother is a black woman, right?
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:And so in Puerto Rico you have
that, you have that mixture.
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:My father's side of the family, it, it,
they, they are darker complexion, right?
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:Mm-hmm.
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:And they have more co hair.
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:My mother's side of the
family, my grandfather came
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:from, culturally Italian, but.
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:Under the, under French rule at the time.
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:So he came from Corsica
there, he had green eyes.
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:Right.
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:He had light brown hair.
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:So my mother's side of the
family is lighter complexion.
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:My grandmother's ancestry is from Spain.
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:So you have these mixtures and
I'm, I, I would say that I'm a,
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:I'm an average Puerto Rican, right?
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:Because we, we pull from all cultures
and the DNA test will tell you that
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:we're a third African, a third European,
and a third indigenous, pretty much.
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:And then we have a lot of
North African mixed into that.
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:And West yeah, north and West African.
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:But then you come here to the US
and I'm gonna tell you something
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:that happened to me, with my father.
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:As a matter of fact, my father
is a little bit darker than I am.
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:We went, we were living
in Georgia at the time.
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:And at that time before I converted to
Islam, I was looking for a church because
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:we had just moved to this new area and
we were driving home and I saw that there
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:were two churches on this, this main
road, getting to get to our, our house.
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:There were two churches side by side.
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:One of them was very old and
kind of broken down, and then
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:the other one looked newer.
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:And so in my mind I thought, maybe
this is the same church, because
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:they're literally side by side,
a parking lot in between them.
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:And I said, maybe this is the new church.
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:And then this is the older
church that they probably, they
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:probably built this newer one.
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:So I told my dad, maybe we
can come here on a Sunday.
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:And so my father took me to this church.
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:So we went together, just he and
I, and we said, we're gonna go
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:into the newer building because
obviously this is probably the one
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:that, that everyone's going to.
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:And we happened to walk in and
there was already a service going
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:on, on, on this Sunday morning.
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:We walk into this church.
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:And there's a sea of white faces.
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:They all turn around to look at us.
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:And a man gets up and he quickly
comes to us and we're thinking, okay,
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:he's gonna help us go and sit down.
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:And instead he said, if you're looking
for the black church, it's over there.
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:And he pointed to the church across
the parking lot and immediately, I
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:mean, we just stumbled out of it.
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:He walked us out and kicked us out
of church in the middle of a service.
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:Wow.
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:And that was one of the worst experiences
with racism that I ever had in my life.
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:And I, I wrote about this experience
and, and in an article that it's
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:titled how Racism, led me away from
Christianity because after that incident,
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:I never went back to a church again.
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:And I'm not saying that the reason why
I left Christianity was because of that.
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:But I had, I was already on my way
out and that just kind of was the,
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:it just was the nail, the what, the
last nail on the coffin they say.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:But it was, it was incredible.
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:I'd never experienced anything like that.
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:And in Puerto Rico, like I
said, everyone is Puerto Rican.
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:Even when I go to Puerto Rico with
my hijab on, I'm still just a Puerto
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:Rican with a scarf on my head, and
I'll go with my family and we feel
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:better walking the streets there.
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:And we don't feel that, that Islamophobia,
that we feel here immediately.
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:When we, when the last time we went to
Puerto Rico, we came back as soon as
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:we landed, we had a layover in Atlanta.
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:As soon as we got into that
airport and walked out, we could
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:feel the tension in the air.
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:The way that people perceive us
here, the way that people look at
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:you, it's just completely different.
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:And like I said, is there
anti-blackness in, in, in Latin America?
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:Absolutely.
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:In Puerto Rico, in the
Caribbean, not as much.
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:I would say not as much because
we have more of a mixture.
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:But at the same time, the racism
that exists there and here, it's just
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:a totally different beast SA law.
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:Imam Tariq: Yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:This is this is top notch racism in the us
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:Wendy Diaz: Yeah.
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:It's just another breed of it.
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:Imam Tariq: it is.
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:How has, well, before I go into
that question, let me ask this.
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:As you said, when you go back
to Puerto Rico, you're just a,
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:a Puerto Rican with a hijab one.
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:But here with a demographic that
is growing very quickly, right.
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:Spanish speaking Muslims,
how do you feel your.
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:How do you feel you are perceived?
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:Are you perceived as, oh,
this is a Puerto Rican Muslim?
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:Because of these phini phenotypical
lines, you know, we are looking at
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:folks and we're always looking to try
to put somebody in a particular box.
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:Are people putting you in the wrong box?
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:Wendy Diaz: Yes.
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:Unfortunately, a lot of people in the,
in the Muslim community themselves,
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:especially I would say maybe from
immigrant backgrounds, they're not
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:familiar with people from other
countries, especially in Latin America.
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:So automatically people associate anyone
who's Latin American with Mexican.
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:So if you're from Latin
America, then you are Mexican.
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:That's it.
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:We've gotten that a lot.
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:My family and I, my husband
is from Ecuador, south
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:America, and he gets it a lot.
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:There was an incident in Ajid
where there was a sheikh that came
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:and he was giving a talk and he
cracked a joke about Mexican people.
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:And then one of the brothers that
was sitting in the audience close
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:to my husband gets up and said,
we've got a Mexican right here.
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:And it was so ignorant.
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:Wow.
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:But it was one of those things that just
happens at the moment and you just kind of
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:look and you can't do anything about it.
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:And just the moment just passes
and you're just left there in,
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:complete disbelief and speechless.
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:So those are the type of
the, of things that happen.
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:I had one brother argue with me
because he asked me where I'm from
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:and I said, I'm from Puerto Rico.
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:And he said, Portugal?
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:And I said, no, Puerto Rico.
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:And he said, yes, Portugal.
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:And I mean, I left that conversation
as yes, I am from Portugal.
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:So, so you have that you know,
that, that ignorance about different
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:countries and cultures, even within
our own co countries, in, in, in
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:Latin America, there are different
cultures within the country itself.
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:And, and not everyone in Latin
America is Spanish speaking.
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:We have indigenous languages, we
have Portuguese, we have even English
426
:in Belize and things like that.
427
:So There's a lot of things
that people just don't know.
428
:And I feel like, well, that's okay.
429
:Us here to get to know one another.
430
:Imam Tariq: That's right.
431
:Wendy Diaz: And, but it's, but we have
to be willing to listen and we have to be
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:willing to let that information come in.
433
:And we also have to be willing to
understand that, that, that all of us
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:are worthy of learning about Islam and
being Muslim no matter where we're from,
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:because we, unfortunately, we've gotten
that as well, that people think if, oh,
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:you're Puerto Rican, you can't be Muslim.
437
:I've had people tell me that, and, you
know, or they'll tell my children when
438
:they were in Islamic school, some of
them, their, their friends would make
439
:fun of them and say, oh, you know, bring
tacos for, you know, multicultural day.
440
:And my children are
like, we don't eat tacos.
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:We're from Puerto Rico and Ecuador.
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:We don't eat tacos, but people just
don't put two and two together.
443
:Even the teachers would, would
make statements like that.
444
:I think we all need to be willing to, to
really just, try and, and learn from each
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:other and open up spaces, safe spaces so
that we can all have these conversations.
446
:Imam Tariq: Your experience you mentioned
this as a formative experience for you
447
:as a child, learning to read the English,
the pronunciation of the English letters.
448
:And do you feel that you've taken
some of that, that experience with
449
:you or the, the patience, right?
450
:The investment that's,
that is required, To teach.
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:Have you taken that with you even.
452
:Like, I know you've written
for children, right?
453
:But do you sort of also kind of take
that same view in dealing with adults
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:because, you know, we're all just
big children in, in, in some ways.
455
:But has that shaped the way
that you engage or you teach?
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:Wendy Diaz: Absolutely.
457
:So one of the things, we were
talking about language before
458
:I did become a Spanish teacher.
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:I, from, you know, I went to, when I
went to undergrad, that's my major was
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:in, modern languages and linguistics
focused on Spanish language and education.
461
:And so after I finished my
undergrad, I, I went into teaching
462
:Spanish at a public school.
463
:So language teaching languages to
me has, has been very important.
464
:And my, my philosophy is for
second language acquisition,
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:reading rhyme and repetition.
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:Because I learned that from a young
age reading rhyme and repetition.
467
:And to me, that's why I find the Koran
so fascinating because it contains those
468
:elements of repetition, of rhyme, right?
469
:and we're encouraged to read it over
and, and you still find gems, right?
470
:And even in your recitation.
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:So definitely it has influenced the
way that I approach people and the
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:way that that I, that I teach others.
473
:And speaking of repetition, I feel like
sometimes I feel like people get tired of
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:me because I'm always talking about these
same issues about Latino Muslims and you
475
:know, I'm just like driving these points
home and people, yeah, they must be tired.
476
:They're like, sister Wendy's always
talking about this, but somebody has to.
477
:Somebody has to.
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:And yes, I'm going to continue to repeat
it, and I'm gonna continue even to rhyme
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:it because I've written poetry about it.
480
:And I hope that, you know, s something
that I say can just get embedded in, into
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:some minds and open some minds out there.
482
:Imam Tariq: How do you choose the medium?
483
:How do you choose whether or not
you are going to, I guess, write
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:to a, write to a particular point?
485
:If you're going to, approach
it through poetry what is
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:the, what is the process like?
487
:Is that conscious or is that just
you, you just make yourself open to
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:let out whatever Allah has for you?
489
:Wendy Diaz: Without sounding my,
my teenagers would say cringe.
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:it chooses you, right?
491
:Okay.
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:It chooses you because when it comes to
writing it, it really is an art form.
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:And sometimes it's just
born of inspiration.
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:So whenever I have written
poetry, it can't be forced.
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:I was talking about this too in this
author session at, at the icna convention.
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:It can't be forced you, if you, there
were people in the audience that want to
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:become authors or they're aspiring authors
or they're already, you know, writing.
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:And I told 'em, if writing is
not your thing, don't force it.
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:You don't have to become a writer.
500
:But El Ada gives us different
talents to use for his cause, right?
501
:And so I think with writing,
I find it therapeutic.
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:The way that I approach writing is I
write for a parenting newsletter for sound
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:vision, and that's a weekly endeavor.
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:So every week I'm writing at
least one article or every two
505
:weeks an article about parenting,
from an Islamic perspective.
506
:And so that keeps me busy writing,
and I feel like I, I love to do
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:that because I, I'm writing from
my experiences, I'm taking what I
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:know and then also researching and
coming up with something that I find.
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:That I think might be useful
to other parents out there.
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:But then when it comes to poetry,
sometimes it's just an experience,
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:it's a question, it's something that
happens during the day that just makes
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:me want to write it down and, and, and
put some words and feelings into it.
513
:But it doesn't always happen.
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:And I'll tell you an example I
had, there was a call for poets
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:to put something together about
the situation that's happening,
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:as we know in Palestine and caa.
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:And, so that someone contacted me and
said, can you write something about this?
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:And I sat with it for a long time and
I did write two pieces, but I felt
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:like I, I couldn't even put into words
because it's, the pain is just so raw.
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:the thing, the emotions are so raw
that everything that's happening,
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:it was, it's just how do I even.
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:Describe any of this into words,
how, how do I put this into words?
523
:How do I describe it?
524
:And it was really difficult.
525
:So I think no one can really tell
you how to or when to write poetry.
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:I think it's something that just comes.
527
:But other things like children's
books and things like that, those
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:come out of necessity for me.
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:I feel like if there's something
that's missing on a bookshelf, then
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:this is my job to put it there.
531
:Especially when it comes to representation
of LA Latinos in Islamic literature,
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:or representation of Latino Muslims
in just mainstream literature.
533
:I wanna try to, to fill that gap
because we know that there aren't.
534
:Many right characters, and especially
coming from own voices, we say own voices,
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:literature, meaning that I, myself, as
a Latina, Muslim, I'm going to write
536
:about the experiences of Latino Muslims,
but I don't want someone else that, that
537
:has no clue about my background or about
the background of, of the other Latino
538
:Muslims around me to be writing us and
into their story and just ticking off a
539
:diversity box because that happens, right?
540
:Or you'll have someone writing in,
you know, just they wanna just put
541
:an African American person on the
illustration or on the cover, or as
542
:a main character, just because they
feel that that's what people want.
543
:No, this is should be
coming from here, right?
544
:From your heart.
545
:It should be something that you
feel, that you experience, that you
546
:know, so that you can be authentic.
547
:It's important to be authentic
in your writing and in your art.
548
:Imam Tariq: Yeah.
549
:Yeah.
550
:And, and I think that really speaks
to the, the marketplace of content
551
:creation, and people thinking that, okay,
I can, I'll put some of this in there.
552
:I'll, I'll talk about these
particular, this particular group,
553
:and I'll get some hits for this.
554
:But it's not content with conscience.
555
:or with sincerity to, to be, you
know, to be pretty blunt about it.
556
:The work that you do, with as a
Spanish content, was a Spanish
557
:content coordinator for icna.
558
:How has that work informed your
how has it informed your, or
559
:added to your understanding of
the Latino, Muslim, presence?
560
:Here in the United States,
of America, well and beyond.
561
:And you know, I know we're talking
about North America, right?
562
:But how, how was, how was it,
how is it, contributed to that?
563
:Wendy Diaz: Y some and icna, they
do, they've been doing so much work.
564
:They, sometimes it goes unnoticed.
565
:But for example, I started
volunteering for them in:
566
:I had just gotten married and moved from
Maryland to New Jersey and their main
567
:headquarters are, is, is in New Jersey.
568
:And so they were doing these these
information booths, these setting
569
:up these DA tables, outreach tables,
information tables in different locations,
570
:especially in the malls, up in New Jersey.
571
:And they needed people who spoke Spanish.
572
:And by that time, I've been
Muslim, what, five years.
573
:and I understood the need for that
because even here in Maryland, I was
574
:doing that because once you, you become
Muslim, the first people that wanna know.
575
:And want information is your family
members and my family members being
576
:mostly back home and not speaking English.
577
:So you, you start
scrambling for resources.
578
:And so what did I find?
579
:You find the Y Ssam has all of these
brochures and things in Spanish.
580
:They have Spanish koans that they
give away for free for anyone
581
:that's looking for information.
582
:And so when we moved to New Jersey, they
were having these, these information booth
583
:and they said, we need people who speak
Spanish because when we're here setting
584
:up in this mall, we have these Spanish
speaking people that will come to the
585
:table and they're looking for answers.
586
:So they need somebody
that speaks the language.
587
:And so I, I've been with them
since and that's 20 years.
588
:And I've I've tried to walk away from,
but you can't walk away from da work.
589
:You cannot walk away from it because
it's something that, that all of
590
:us are passionate about because
we understand how important it is.
591
:I have, I'm still from my side
of the family, not speaking on my
592
:husband's side, but on my side of the
family, I'm still the only Muslim.
593
:My, my parents are not Muslim.
594
:My, my only brother that
I have is not Muslim.
595
:My niece and nephew are not Muslim, you
know, and all my cousins and my aunts and
596
:uncles re I've met, I have a couple of
cousins that, that converted to a Simon.
597
:That's wonderful.
598
:And they're, but they're distant cousins.
599
:I'm talking about
immediate family members.
600
:And so the importance of that work, the
importance of, of continuing on and,
601
:and to have that content available.
602
:And how far we've come.
603
:If you think back about, 20 years ago
until now, how much more we have in
604
:terms of, of educational materials, in
terms of Spanish language literature.
605
:But there's still a lack of it.
606
:There is still a lack, so
there's a lot of work to do.
607
:So that's one of those things you have to
just continue doing it until, you know,
608
:we, we breathe our last breath in Shaah
609
:Imam Tariq: Shaah.
610
:So would you say that that represents
one of the bigger challenges that
611
:the amount of work that needs to be
done and the amount and the number of
612
:people that are able to engage in it?
613
:Wendy Diaz: Absolutely.
614
:There aren't even in the us we have
a lot of Spanish speaking people.
615
:And some also, some Latin Americans do
not speak Spanish, but they also need
616
:information that resonates with them.
617
:So you'll find that even though they
don't speak Spanish, they still want
618
:to hear about Islam from another Latino
because we share that same background
619
:and we can present the information in
a certain way, and then we can also
620
:reach their family in different ways.
621
:Right?
622
:We know what it's like to grow
up, in a, in a Latino family.
623
:We know what, what their parents are
thinking and their, you know, their family
624
:members are thinking and the things that
they may be going through that someone
625
:else may not be able to understand,
especially from the immigrant community.
626
:so we're able to work with
them more in that sense.
627
:And then as far as work to be done
and what are the obstacles always
628
:the same with nonprofit work.
629
:It's the funding, right?
630
:And the lack of manpower
because you don't have funding.
631
:And because people are, are working
and because there is a recession and
632
:because, people have to, to kind of.
633
:They have limited time to be able
to dedicate to this, but the people
634
:who are doing the work, they are
completely dedicated and they are
635
:putting in time, that sometimes
they don't even have, right?
636
:Because they are working regular jobs
and then they're coming back after
637
:work and putting in time for this.
638
:So it's, it is incredible the
things that go on behind the scenes.
639
:And that's why I say Wise Islam and,
and Igna, has been doing amazing work.
640
:There are other organizations and
including Latino organizations all
641
:around the US more than two dozen that
I can count, that are doing work in
642
:their communities and that deserve that
recognition and the resources as well.
643
:Imam Tariq: Yeah, that feels like a,
a constant refrain from folks that are
644
:doing work in community, that is volunteer
based particularly that's volunteer based,
645
:Concerns about sustainability, concerns
about, the spirit matching the need.
646
:may I make it easy, for all of us?
647
:Yes.
648
:Yes.
649
:Absolutely.
650
:Yeah.
651
:I'm in the same boat.
652
:So when it comes to, I, I
wanna lift up from the bayan.
653
:Recently they had you I didn't mention
this in the opening, but congratulations
654
:again, completing the Master of Islamic
Studies at Bayan Islamic Graduate School.
655
:And we got an opportunity to listen
to, to some of the graduates.
656
:And you were one of the graduates that
came up and shared a few words with us.
657
:And I wish I had that audio.
658
:'cause I would just, that would be a great
little soundbite just to throw out there.
659
:But, but.
660
:But, but you said it and I felt this,
it resonated with me in that, and I
661
:think maybe in a different way than
it may have resonated with others.
662
:Well, I can't speak on how it
resonated with anybody else, but
663
:you said we are coming for you.
664
:Talk about the Latino, Latino
Muslims we're coming for you.
665
:Talk about, tell us,
unpack that a bit for us.
666
:Yeah,
667
:Wendy Diaz: so I've been, I've been
doing, research, first of all, thank you.
668
:Thank you so much.
669
:I appreciate that.
670
:I've been doing research on the Latino
community for many years, but especially
671
:part of my research while I was at Bayn,
was on Latino Muslims from, gen X and
672
:the early millennial Muslims because
I was tired of seeing news articles
673
:and, and, and even academic literature
focusing on only the phenomenon of.
674
:New conversions to Islam and what
drives Latinos to convert to Islam.
675
:Like why would they ever wanna convert
to Islam, being that they're already
676
:a minority, so why would they wanna
be a minority within a minority?
677
:Within a minority?
678
:So it gets old because you keep on
seeing these same news articles.
679
:So I wanted to really, focus more on
what are the contributions that Latino
680
:Muslims have made in the past 20 to
30 years that they've been practicing
681
:Islam And just from Gen X and early
millennial, I'm not even talking about
682
:baby boomer, Latino Muslims that exist and
their children and their grandchildren.
683
:Right.
684
:Because I had to kind of narrow
it, narrow my study down.
685
:And so I found, that in, in my research
that first of all, I think it's one
686
:out of five American Muslims is.
687
:Was not raised Muslim.
688
:So one out of five American Muslims had
to choose Islam at some point in their
689
:life, they had to convert to Islam or
they had to begin practicing Islam.
690
:and also the fact that in 20, yeah,
this figure in:
691
:that nine, what was it, 12% of American
Muslims identified as Arab, while
692
:9% identified as Hispanic or Latino.
693
:And I just found that so fascinating.
694
:And there was a pie, a pie graph to go
with that statistic and you could see
695
:the two, the two pieces of this pie.
696
:And there were so close.
697
:And that's why I said, we're coming
for you because Latino muslims
698
:are growing and and there is no,
that growth is not slowing down.
699
:This has been happening
since the nineties.
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:Imam Tariq: Mm-hmm.
701
:Wendy Diaz: Right.
702
:And especially after September 11th.
703
:Yeah.
704
:That, that number has,
has grown exponentially.
705
:And so the reason why I said that
is because what are we doing in our
706
:communities to make space for Latinos,
to have them sit at our tables, to have
707
:them be part of the decision making
process so that we offer resources to
708
:their neighbors and their families, right?
709
:Mm-hmm.
710
:When someone converts to Islam,
it's not just one individual.
711
:You have that whole individual's family
that is now going to have some type of
712
:contact with the Muslim community, right?
713
:Right.
714
:Imam Tariq: That
715
:Wendy Diaz: that individual
may have children, right?
716
:And those children, what are
we doing to help transition
717
:them into Muslim spaces, right?
718
:Mm-hmm.
719
:How are we making these spaces welcoming?
720
:And, and I think that's something that
we really, the Muslim in, in, in the
721
:US really need to be thinking about.
722
:Imam Tariq: Mm-hmm.
723
:Wendy Diaz: Right?
724
:Imam Tariq: Do you see a replication
of the, the, there's a formula for the
725
:acquisition of power or influence in
society, and whether that be through,
726
:organizations, corporations there's a
particular hierarchy that often exists.
727
:And some might say that we also
see that modeled within the Muslim
728
:communities because, you know,
we're, we're not monolithic.
729
:And that making space is a for others,
Jeopardizes the idea or, you know,
730
:the, the power that, or influence
that some might feel that they have.
731
:Do you feel that there's
any validity to that?
732
:Wendy Diaz: I mean definitely
I understand what you're saying
733
:and it, it is completely true and
realistic to think that there is
734
:a, a power dynamics at play there.
735
:But one another, going back to that
statement of we're coming for you.
736
:I've had, I've known of families that
their children and my children were in
737
:the same Islamic school and, you know, way
back when, and now my, my oldest is 18 and
738
:their oldest is, they're also at that age.
739
:And some of them, although they were
coming from immigrant families or second
740
:gen, second generation or something
from the subcontinent for instance,
741
:or they were Arab families that,
that perhaps in that, a few years ago
742
:would've said, oh yeah, our children are
going to marry, you know, their cousin
743
:back home, or they're going to stay,
you know, within this, this circle.
744
:They've married, Latino Muslims, right?
745
:So I've known of several several, you
know, Pakistani Indian, Arab Muslims who
746
:are now married, to Latinos or Latinas,
and that's gonna continue to happen.
747
:So even if there are those power dynamics
where, where, okay, we have this Bengali
748
:Maji and we don't, you know, and our
board is consists of Bengalis only, and
749
:if we bring a Latino into this, it's gonna
just throw off our power dynamic here.
750
:But eventually we're going to have
to do this because you're, you're
751
:now, your families are marrying,
intermarrying with, with this group.
752
:And more and more we're,
we're going into your spaces.
753
:So eventually you just
have to give in, right?
754
:You, what is it?
755
:You either, how does that go?
756
:If you can't, you can't fight 'em.
757
:You join, what is it?
758
:Imam Tariq: Yeah.
759
:You can't, can't beat 'em.
760
:Join them,
761
:Wendy Diaz: can't beat 'em.
762
:Join them, right?
763
:Imam Tariq: Yeah.
764
:Wendy Diaz: So, yeah, you have to, you
have to make space eventually, or else
765
:you're gonna get kicked out of your space.
766
:So it's either you make space
or you're gonna lose your place.
767
:Imam Tariq: Yeah.
768
:Yeah.
769
:There's that
770
:Wendy Diaz: rhyme again.
771
:Imam Tariq: Yeah.
772
:It's helpful.
773
:It's helpful.
774
:You know, I just, I often, and I have
to, I have to bounce these things off
775
:of the pe other people to make sure
that I'm not just, I don't know, being
776
:myopic or, you know, I have not, I'm
not in a moment where I, I'm jaded and
777
:I need to pause for a second, but I
often see the same kind of dynamics and
778
:struggles that are going on in larger
society American society, playing out
779
:within our Muslim communities, right?
780
:So we see this pushback
against, non-white.
781
:Folk.
782
:And our, the policies, you know, the,
the deportations, the, attack, DEI,
783
:and just this idea of we wanna make
sure that we keep ourselves, in power,
784
:in, in a, in a position of authority.
785
:We don't want to be challenged.
786
:We, we are absolutely against the
browning of America, which has been
787
:forecasted and likewise as, as black
and brown, demographics continue to,
788
:to grow, particularly those indigenous
to, you know, within the states.
789
:And like how, how do we respond to that?
790
:Do we lose sight of the, the larger
mission that should be driving us, right?
791
:Which is not about what's, you know,
what profits me as an individual,
792
:but what profits, humanity, and yeah.
793
:So I, I see.
794
:I see us as a kind of a microcosm often
of what's going on in the larger society.
795
:Wendy Diaz: Absolutely.
796
:And I've seen it's unfortunate that I've
seen some of the rhetoric that you hear
797
:in the news and you hear from certain
politicians, being echoed in our spaces.
798
:for example, there was an incident, and
a very unfortunate incident with that
799
:had to do with an immigrant I believe
it was a Salvadorian man, in Virginia
800
:who attacked and killed a Muslim.
801
:Yeah.
802
:Yes.
803
:You remember that, right?
804
:Mm-hmm.
805
:And, and it was, it was a
despicable crime that happened.
806
:But then what I saw as well is that
people began to attack, and I'm
807
:talking about Muslims in forums online
and things began to attack all La
808
:Latinos and Hispanics and saying,
and echoing that same rhetoric like.
809
:These immigrants are criminals.
810
:They're coming from the border and
they're, and this is what they do.
811
:Some of the same, even the same words
that, that the current president has used.
812
:Like, they're, they're rapists, they're
criminals, they're gang members,
813
:and so on, and just generalizing.
814
:And, and it was unfortunate to see that,
because of this incident that occurred.
815
:And it just happened to be that
this person was a hi, a Latino
816
:person that committed this crime.
817
:But we can't, we can't be guilty
of the same things that we are.
818
:We are accusing others
of being towards us.
819
:We don't want people
to ha be Islamophobic.
820
:So we in turn cannot be xenophobic.
821
:Mm.
822
:Right.
823
:We can't be Hispanic hispanica
phobic, there is such a
824
:thing as his Hispanic phobia.
825
:So if we really want that respect
for ourselves and we want to be
826
:welcomed here, and we want, then
we have to be welcoming to others.
827
:You know, because then we're, we,
how are we any better than anyone
828
:else if we're, we're just doing
the same thing to another people?
829
:I've also seen that in, in some
of the massa, they'll have, Latino
830
:people come and, and clean do
landscaping, or they come and they're
831
:the cleaning service for the ji.
832
:And then, they won't give them any
brochures about Islam or they won't
833
:talk to them about Islam at all.
834
:So the people are coming into the JI and
they're even cleaning the prayer area
835
:and they have no idea what the space is.
836
:And I feel like that's unfair because
then what, what are we really doing?
837
:I mean, what do we think?
838
:Do we think that others are
not worthy of the message?
839
:Imam Tariq: Right?
840
:Wendy Diaz: And we can't think like that.
841
:Yeah.
842
:And that's why Ola says that he will
not change the condition of a people
843
:until they change what's in themselves.
844
:Yeah.
845
:Right.
846
:So if we're not cleansing our hearts
and changing all of that ugliness
847
:inside of us, then how can we expect
to reap all the rewards outside?
848
:No.
849
:We have to do the work internally, and
we have to do the work around in our
850
:communities so that we can get the,
the reward and the blessing of Allah.
851
:Imam Tariq: Mm-hmm.
852
:I mean, I want go back to
the, is it the three Rs?
853
:Reading, repe, rhyming, repetition,
and overlay that over your, the writing
854
:that you do for parents, parenting.
855
:You mentioned, you said your oldest is 18.
856
:So my, our oldest are 23 and.
857
:21.
858
:Yeah.
859
:So we got a twin 23-year-old son.
860
:There are things that we kind of, we,
we do as a matter of I don't know, as
861
:a matter of habit, as a part of our
parenting, but when we're conscious
862
:about the repetition, when we're,
when we're conscious about, how we are
863
:internalizing things, that's also an
opportunity for us to engage it, engage
864
:what we're doing in different ways.
865
:Have there been moments in your
writing that you're able to look
866
:at your own, parenting and say
that, well, I've repeated this.
867
:I've, I've committed this
kind of thing to memory.
868
:It's become kind of a part, of me.
869
:But I see it in a different way now and
I'm able to share that in my writing
870
:with, for the benefit of other parents.
871
:Wendy Diaz: I think I, I, I joke and say
that I think I, I have a, a PhD in, in
872
:parenting you have like your first child,
that's your associates, and then you have
873
:your second one, you get your bachelor's
third, get your master's fourth, you
874
:know, you are working on your doctorate.
875
:I've got six of them.
876
:Imam Tariq: Oh, I do not,
877
:Wendy Diaz: no, no.
878
:I, and the reason I say that is because
with parenting, every child is different.
879
:Every experience is different.
880
:And, and I've ha and I have them even
now at different stages and ages.
881
:And, and it's just, it's a
learning experience every day.
882
:And so, yes, okay.
883
:I've been parenting for, close
to 19 years now, but I still
884
:don't know what I'm doing.
885
:and, and that's one of the things
we have to be easy on ourselves as
886
:parents, to know that we're going,
we're bound to make mistakes.
887
:and that's okay.
888
:And I, and I think that through
my writing, I try to, I try to
889
:give that message to parents that,
there are mistakes that we're gonna
890
:be making, but we have to pick
ourselves up and we have to look
891
:towards the example of the prophet.
892
:We have to look into the Koran and
the wisdom that, that it contains
893
:and use that as a framework.
894
:Even though, and, you know, I think
the mercy, it's a, it's a mercy
895
:that there is no blueprint that
is exact, that we have to follow.
896
:But there are things that we
can do to have good character.
897
:We have to look at how the prophet AZA
the had, lik he said that he served
898
:the prophet during his childhood.
899
:And he said, the prophet
never said, oof to me.
900
:Right?
901
:He never said, why did you do that?
902
:Or Why did you not do this?
903
:And I know as parents we, we probably
do this all the time, like they drop
904
:a cup and it, it spills on the floor
and you're like, why'd you do that?
905
:Right.
906
:And so you kind of, and if that
phrase comes out of your mouth,
907
:you remember that the prophets, he
never said that to an been Malik.
908
:Imam Tariq: Mm-hmm.
909
:Wendy Diaz: Even though he was a kid
and he would go off, sometimes the
910
:prophet would send him off on an errand
and he said that he got distracted and
911
:he was playing with the other kids.
912
:And this was the prophet.
913
:Yeah.
914
:And so how, who are we to be
harsh with our children and
915
:ask them, why'd you do this?
916
:And why, why didn't you do this
when the prophet didn't do it?
917
:So I think that it gives us pause
when we, when we learn our dean and
918
:we, when we learn these stories and
it gives us something to reflect
919
:on and say, okay, you know what?
920
:Let me just let this go because
I want to, to make sure that,
921
:that, that I'm displaying the
best of character as a parent.
922
:and that my child also
gets the same message.
923
:But it is a mercy that there isn't,
that there, there isn't like a,
924
:there isn't a complete way that
you have to follow because all the
925
:different cultures are different.
926
:Right.
927
:The way that we raise children, the
way that, that our parents raise us
928
:and the way even back home, they would
raise children everywhere is different.
929
:So at least we, we just have kind of like,
some ground rules that we follow, but we
930
:can, you know, our cultures kind of can
also dictate things as long as they're
931
:within the boundaries of our faith.
932
:Imam Tariq: Hmm, Do you find,
what kind of feedback do you get?
933
:is there a common response that you
get or do you find yourself getting
934
:or receiving feedback that, that
has surprised you in a good way?
935
:Wendy Diaz: With the
parenting newsletter or
936
:Imam Tariq: with anything?
937
:Well, anything, you know,
however you choose to, but I
938
:was thinking about parenting,
939
:Wendy Diaz: we I haven't gotten too much.
940
:Feedback on the parenting
other than, you know, just a
941
:thank you and things like that.
942
:I find it really useful.
943
:There's a whole arsenal of articles
on, on sound vision, on parenting.
944
:And what I find, and I find it really
useful because for instance, I'll
945
:be in a forum, on Facebook where
you have like Muslim mothers, right?
946
:You have groups on Facebook or Muslim
mothers or Muslim women in, in this
947
:area, in the DMV area, and they'll have
questions about something related to
948
:something that has been written, or
that I've written about on Sound vision.
949
:And so that I can go in, to the
website and just drop that link and
950
:say, look, I wrote an article about
this very question that you have.
951
:And so they'll be really
grateful about that.
952
:Maybe they didn't, they've never been to
sound vision to, to seek parenting advice,
953
:but it's always good to have a resource.
954
:There's like babycenter.com
955
:or something like that.
956
:I remember when I was pregnant that, that,
that website was, was kind of like the
957
:holy grail of, of everything parenting.
958
:Especially as a new mom mm-hmm.
959
:Where you can go in and, and learn
about what's happening in your
960
:pregnancy, even during the pregnancy
and then after your baby's born.
961
:So we need those type of resources
in the Muslim community too, right?
962
:We need to, to know what do
we do when a baby's born?
963
:What do we do when our children are going
through this phase or, or that phase?
964
:What milestones are we
looking for as Muslim parents?
965
:And so, yeah, you do get good
feedback on in that sense,
966
:where people say, oh, thank you.
967
:I, I, I didn't even know that
this resource existed, but
968
:at least it's there, right?
969
:For whoever needs it.
970
:Imam Tariq: Which area requires
the most attention from you?
971
:Whether it's the Spanish language
translation or parenting, or, or,
972
:or any other endeavor, you know,
whether it be the creative, aspects.
973
:Is there a particular area that requires
more intentionality and focus from you
974
:or that you would want to give more to?
975
:Wendy Diaz: Absolutely.
976
:I think the writing,
children's literature mm-hmm.
977
:And producing, Islamic literature for,
even for adults as well in Spanish.
978
:It's like, like I said
before, it's lacking.
979
:Mm-hmm.
980
:It was lacking, 10 years ago,
and now it's still lacking even
981
:though there is a little bit more.
982
:And that I do get a lot of feedback from
an, and I think that's my motivation
983
:comes from those people that contact
me from Mexico or from Venezuela
984
:or from Colombia or from Ecuador.
985
:They send me an email and they say, I just
bought your book, or I just got your book
986
:and I'm able to teach my child about Islam
987
:Imam Tariq: through
988
:Wendy Diaz: this book.
989
:That, to me, is the most rewarding
thing that I could ever do, and it, it
990
:keeps me motivated because sometimes I
have, I have a lot of self-doubt, right.
991
:I have the imposter syndrome and
sometimes I've, I've told myself, you
992
:know, maybe I should stop doing this.
993
:Maybe, you know, I, I should
move on to something else.
994
:Maybe I should focus on something else.
995
:Or maybe I'm not good
enough to do X, Y, and Z.
996
:and in those moments is when I get
a message like that and I feel like
997
:Ham la, like that's, that's Allah's
way of, of helping me push forward,
998
:continue to do the work because there
are people in other countries that have
999
:absolutely nothing to teach their child.
:
00:55:47,460 --> 00:55:47,520
Yeah.
:
00:55:47,940 --> 00:55:52,170
Imagine a person who converts to
Islam and they have this small child,
:
00:55:52,740 --> 00:55:54,030
and there is absolutely nothing.
:
00:55:54,030 --> 00:55:55,170
There's no Islamic school.
:
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:58,890
Sometimes there's not even a message
close by and there's no books, there's
:
00:55:58,890 --> 00:56:00,170
nothing to teach their children.
:
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:02,540
What are they, how are
they going to do that?
:
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:07,850
The only way is for you, for them to
have access to some type of reading
:
00:56:07,850 --> 00:56:11,240
material, something that they can present
to their child or even a, a program.
:
00:56:11,240 --> 00:56:14,030
I was doing a puppet show on, on online.
:
00:56:14,030 --> 00:56:18,170
I recorded puppet show episodes and
I uploaded them to YouTube with.
:
00:56:18,515 --> 00:56:20,315
My husband's help my family's help.
:
00:56:20,945 --> 00:56:25,095
and even those were used in,
in Islamic schools in Colombia.
:
00:56:25,275 --> 00:56:25,365
Mm-hmm.
:
00:56:25,605 --> 00:56:28,155
They would put them on a
TV for the kids to watch.
:
00:56:28,455 --> 00:56:32,885
So that, that to me, I think it,
it deserves the most attention.
:
00:56:32,885 --> 00:56:33,725
Absolutely.
:
00:56:33,845 --> 00:56:35,795
I wish that I could
dedicate more time to it.
:
00:56:35,795 --> 00:56:38,585
I'm always, you know, in my mind
I'm always like, I need to do more.
:
00:56:38,585 --> 00:56:39,305
I need to do more.
:
00:56:39,305 --> 00:56:40,115
I need to do more.
:
00:56:40,785 --> 00:56:43,125
Because there is just so
much that needs to be done.
:
00:56:44,595 --> 00:56:44,805
Imam Tariq: Yeah.
:
00:56:45,555 --> 00:56:49,245
First of all, may I continue to
inspire you and keep you motivated
:
00:56:49,395 --> 00:56:53,335
because your service, the work
that you do is extremely important.
:
00:56:53,815 --> 00:57:00,715
But I want to lift up something that
you've said for me as a, as someone
:
00:57:00,715 --> 00:57:05,325
who also has the who has accepted the
responsibility of leadership and I.
:
00:57:05,595 --> 00:57:07,185
In, in my limited capacity.
:
00:57:07,215 --> 00:57:12,325
and, and I believe that we all have, we
all have to recognize what are the areas
:
00:57:12,325 --> 00:57:14,845
that we, that we provide leadership in.
:
00:57:15,895 --> 00:57:19,855
You said something I think is critically
important, that really touched me.
:
00:57:20,755 --> 00:57:23,095
First of all, as a parent, you
said, I don't know what I'm doing.
:
00:57:23,875 --> 00:57:28,315
I'm a parent That resonated
with me so, so, so deeply.
:
00:57:28,645 --> 00:57:34,890
And I think that's one of the things that,
it, it really hampers us, many of us is
:
00:57:35,220 --> 00:57:37,950
not being willing to say, I don't know.
:
00:57:38,580 --> 00:57:39,450
I need help.
:
00:57:39,450 --> 00:57:41,940
Let me, you know, let me see
what else is going out there.
:
00:57:41,940 --> 00:57:45,570
You know, I come from a tradition,
where we say the wisdom is in the room.
:
00:57:46,270 --> 00:57:49,780
You don't have to carry it
all yourself, ask questions.
:
00:57:50,260 --> 00:57:54,100
Also, one of my mentors, he said, the
quality of your life is dependent upon
:
00:57:54,100 --> 00:57:55,870
the quality of the questions that you ask.
:
00:57:56,365 --> 00:57:56,695
Right.
:
00:57:57,025 --> 00:58:02,005
So what you said is an invitation for
us to ask questions, and that's how
:
00:58:02,005 --> 00:58:05,665
we build community in those moments
of vulnerability and sincerity.
:
00:58:06,145 --> 00:58:09,145
And the last thing that I
wanted to point to that you
:
00:58:09,145 --> 00:58:11,725
said is about imposter syndrome.
:
00:58:12,295 --> 00:58:18,595
And I don't know a leader
who does not deal with that.
:
00:58:18,715 --> 00:58:20,845
We all deal with that
in at different moments.
:
00:58:21,115 --> 00:58:24,985
You're going into the unknown
often, especially when you're, when
:
00:58:24,985 --> 00:58:29,015
you're doing work where there's not
a roadmap where folks, you're not
:
00:58:29,015 --> 00:58:31,205
actually, you're blazing the trail.
:
00:58:32,165 --> 00:58:32,825
It's like.
:
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:35,850
A if I'm not, if I don't
do it, who's gonna do it?
:
00:58:36,010 --> 00:58:38,860
And if Aah gave me the inspiration
to do it, then I gotta do it.
:
00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:44,250
I just want to, just to tell
you how, appreciative I am for
:
00:58:44,250 --> 00:58:45,510
you to share those two things.
:
00:58:45,510 --> 00:58:48,070
And, who knows, they may wind
up in this week's click by.
:
00:58:48,580 --> 00:58:49,990
I don't know if you
have a response to that.
:
00:58:49,990 --> 00:58:51,730
Before I jumped on to
the, to the next question.
:
00:58:52,300 --> 00:58:56,920
Wendy Diaz: I was gonna say, gi how
impactful would it be if a Hatti got
:
00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:59,710
up on the bimba and said, I don't
know what I'm doing today, y'all.
:
00:59:03,430 --> 00:59:06,520
I think it would definitely resonate
with all of the congregation.
:
00:59:06,910 --> 00:59:09,070
We would all say yes the same.
:
00:59:09,220 --> 00:59:09,700
Imam Tariq: that's right.
:
00:59:09,730 --> 00:59:11,950
We're all trying to figure this thing out.
:
00:59:12,550 --> 00:59:14,620
You know, Meah, meah preserve us.
:
00:59:16,250 --> 00:59:16,400
not me.
:
00:59:17,270 --> 00:59:21,960
As we start to, to wind down, I would
like to ask you to, present you with an.
:
00:59:22,545 --> 00:59:23,745
Open-ended question.
:
00:59:23,745 --> 00:59:26,505
I think you may have alluded to
this a bit earlier, but I'd like
:
00:59:26,505 --> 00:59:29,085
to hear it, maybe even restate it.
:
00:59:29,535 --> 00:59:31,665
The one lesson I keep learning is,
:
00:59:32,535 --> 00:59:38,985
Wendy Diaz: the one lesson I keep learning
is that the more you learn, the more you
:
00:59:38,985 --> 00:59:40,935
realize that you don't know anything.
:
00:59:43,125 --> 00:59:43,455
Yeah.
:
00:59:44,685 --> 00:59:48,765
And definitely I think through my,
throughout my journey at, at Bayan
:
00:59:48,795 --> 00:59:52,065
Islamic graduate school too, it, it
was one of those things where, yeah,
:
00:59:52,125 --> 00:59:55,185
the more you learn, the more classes
you take, the more you realize, wow,
:
00:59:55,365 --> 01:00:01,575
there, this is a never ending sea of
knowledge and I don't even have a spritz
:
01:00:02,085 --> 01:00:02,385
Imam Tariq: of it.
:
01:00:04,135 --> 01:00:05,915
Wendy Diaz: and and
that really humbles you.
:
01:00:06,515 --> 01:00:06,635
Yeah.
:
01:00:06,635 --> 01:00:07,505
It really humbles you.
:
01:00:07,935 --> 01:00:08,715
and, and learning.
:
01:00:08,715 --> 01:00:12,585
Speaking of languages, again, learning
Arabic language is, it's humbles you.
:
01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:14,220
Because it's not easy.
:
01:00:15,685 --> 01:00:20,695
It's not easy and it takes a lot of work
and dedication and, students, it, it
:
01:00:21,025 --> 01:00:23,035
being a student is a lifelong endeavor.
:
01:00:23,575 --> 01:00:25,465
You're never going to learn
everything there is to know.
:
01:00:26,035 --> 01:00:26,395
Imam Tariq: that's right.
:
01:00:26,915 --> 01:00:32,285
Speaking of Bayan, I would be remiss
if I did not ask you, was there a
:
01:00:32,285 --> 01:00:38,605
particular lesson or imprint that your
experience at Bayan has made on you?
:
01:00:38,605 --> 01:00:40,285
Something that you carry with you?
:
01:00:41,515 --> 01:00:42,805
Wendy Diaz: There were a lot of things.
:
01:00:42,925 --> 01:00:43,885
A lot of things.
:
01:00:43,995 --> 01:00:50,915
But I noticed the character of some of my
professors, and the character of some of
:
01:00:50,915 --> 01:00:57,685
my fellow classmates in just small things,
that they themselves probably didn't
:
01:00:57,685 --> 01:01:00,805
think about, but it was impactful for me.
:
01:01:01,375 --> 01:01:04,585
And and that's a reminder for all
of us that we never know what we
:
01:01:04,585 --> 01:01:07,425
do that can, inspire a person.
:
01:01:08,145 --> 01:01:13,265
And, I remember being in, in the
classroom and just noticing that one
:
01:01:13,265 --> 01:01:17,405
of the class, one of my classmates
that was sitting next to me during the
:
01:01:17,405 --> 01:01:22,895
class, as she's taking notes, as she's
listening, she was constantly making
:
01:01:22,895 --> 01:01:27,605
Vic, and it was almost like breathing.
:
01:01:28,475 --> 01:01:32,850
It was, it, she was just
doing it without thinking.
:
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:36,450
and I, I thought to myself, and I
saw that and I said, that's what I
:
01:01:36,450 --> 01:01:38,680
want to, that's what I'm aiming for.
:
01:01:38,860 --> 01:01:43,150
And I think that it really just
says a lot to, to, to others.
:
01:01:43,150 --> 01:01:45,490
Your, your character and
the way you carry yourself.
:
01:01:45,490 --> 01:01:48,590
You're, you're not just talking
about what's right and what's
:
01:01:48,590 --> 01:01:49,910
wrong, you're actually doing.
:
01:01:50,570 --> 01:01:55,790
And when you do the work, people
notice that person that was sitting
:
01:01:55,790 --> 01:01:58,940
next to me, she had no idea that
I noticed what, what I noticed.
:
01:01:59,355 --> 01:02:02,965
I think she, and she was doing it
secretively, her, her, her hands
:
01:02:02,965 --> 01:02:04,855
were down here under the, the desk.
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And so I, I don't think she, she realized.
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And so when you really are sincere and
you, and when you're, doing work for the
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sake of Allah, people are gonna notice.
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and so we have to just try to work on
our, on ourselves and our character and,
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and I think it'll show by our actions.
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Imam Tariq: insha'Allah.
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Insha'Allah.
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One of the final questions before I ask
you to share any ongoing projects or
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resources that you'd like to leave with
our listening audience, and that is,
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what is your contribution to leadership?
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Or what do you intend for that?
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Or do you think about yourself as a
leader and what you want to leave for the
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next generation that would follow you?
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Wendy Diaz: It's.
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That's a hard question.
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I never thought of myself as a leader.
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I feel like the most important thing,
and, and I think there's something
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that's been ingrained in, in us as
women, as Muslim women, is that our
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leadership is in the home, right?
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Our leadership is with
our flock, our children.
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Imam Tariq: Mm-hmm.
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Wendy Diaz: We have to lead
by example and, and our
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children are, are our priority.
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And I would hope that I can
lead my children by example
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and be a leader for them.
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I think that that is the most important
thing, the most important legacy.
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At the same time, I understand that the
work that I do has a certain impact and so
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I wanna make sure I do it with excellence.
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And that has to do with, with the
books that I'm producing, the work
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that I'm, the writing that I'm
producing and those things because.
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At the end of the day,
I wanna leave a, a Sia.
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Right?
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Yes.
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That's the, the legacy that's right for
us as Muslims, we wanna leave that Sia
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and it, and it's, it has to do with Right.
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It, the, your child that's left behind
to make, to offer you, any charity
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that, that is ongoing and then any
knowledge that you leave behind.
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Imam Tariq: That's right.
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Wendy Diaz: And so I hope that whatever
it is that I produce is something that's
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beneficial and it's gonna leave some
form of knowledge behind that, that, that
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will, will benefit me in the hereafter.
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At the end of the day, we're
working for the hereafter.
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Right.
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You know, and that, that
should be the ultimate goal.
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Imam Tariq: Thank you for that.
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Do you have any ongoing projects
that you would like to share?
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Wendy Diaz: Still working
on, on more books in Shaah.
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And I hope to produce some,
some more, more serious work.
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Getting more into academic
writing and, and teaching as well.
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In Shaah.
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I'm hoping to get into that.
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And and I also want to empower other
Latino, Muslim writers, working on, on
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this with, with my family, with, with
my husband, to establish, publications,
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high publications where we are going
to help other, Latino, Muslim authors.
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We wanna start with Latino Muslims, right?
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Because of the lack of literature,
from Latino, Muslim writers and
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with Latino Muslim representation.
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So we wanna work with Latino
Muslims who are interested in
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producing this type of work.
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So we can pass the that baton
to others as well, right?
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Because that's part of the,
the work as well is to empower
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other people to do the same.
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so look out for that in Shaah, and
whatever other doors, Allah opens
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and, and I'm able to walk through.
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Then I'm waiting to see what,
what's in store in Shaah
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Imam Tariq: insha'Allah sister Wendy,
I really appreciate you taking the
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time to share a bit of your journey and
your work, your perspectives with us.
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We are certainly better for
it, so may I'll continue to
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to put Barika in your work.
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We have been talking with Sister Wendy
Diaz, writer educator, award-winning
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poet, co-founder of Alamos Islam.
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With that, we are going to close out.
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I'm your host, Imam Tariq El-Amin, and I
leave you as I greeted you, ASUM, may the
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peace that only God can give be upon you.
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I.